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It can be really awkward if you are trying to determine if a couple you’ve met would consider swinging. You will find that this is something that can end up becoming an uncomfortable situation if you assume wrong. Just make sure that you know the right things to do to make sure that you and they would make a good fit.
Mention
Casually bring it up to them. This can be the first step when it comes to trying to see if they are going to be interested. See what their reaction is. Don’t mention swinging with them, just mention swinging in general. See how they react and then go from there. If they do not seem interested at all or if they seem like they are somewhat offended, then drop the subject.
Comfortable
A lot of it also has to do with how comfortable you are with the people that you’ve met up with. You will find that whenever you feel comfortable with them you are going to be a lot more likely to want to swing with them and they you if you are both comfortable with each other.
Connection
You have got to have a connection with these people. If there is not one there, then even if they are interested in swinging nobody is going to have a good time because there is no connection. Make sure that there is a spark there of some kind so that you will all be able to enjoy the benefits of a fun and enjoyable swinging experience.