2011
01.01

Whenever you are introducing your new girlfriend to swinging you are going to need to make sure that you keep a few things in mind. You will only end up scaring her off of the entire experience if you do not practice some patience and always put her wants and needs first.  You will find that whenever you allow her to take the lead and respect her wishes that you will both have a lot better of a time.

Slowly

Always start slowly. Make sure that you and her set some boundaries and some rules that you make sure to follow. She needs to be able to know that she can trust you. This will usually mean starting slowly and letting her make the rules. Sometimes, new couples will want to start slow with only oral or not allowing their partner to climax with another person. This will allow her to get more comfortable with the idea.

Her Lead

Take her lead. Allow her to get started and make sure that she is enjoying herself. You already know that you like it and enjoy doing it so give her a chance to figure out the same. Whenever you let her take the lead you will find that she is going to feel a lot more comfortable a lot faster than if you simply take over and get started without her.

Respect

You need to always make sure that you respect her wishes. No matter how good of a time you are having you need to be ready to walk out the door the second she says she is ready to leave.

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