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Whenever you are considering mixing your swinger friends with your non swinger friends you are going to need to keep a few things in mind. This is something that can either go really well or really badly depending on how you set it up. You will find that many people will end up not knowing what to do to make this a pleasurable experience and they will end up not mixing their friends well.
Honesty
Determine whether or not you want your non swinger friends to know about what you and your swinger friends do. A lot of people will want to keep that part of their lives separate. If you decided that you don’t want them to know, then make sure that your swinger friends are aware of the situation and know what to say and what not to say.
Meeting
When it comes to the meeting, try to choose a place where you know everybody can have fun, even if the meeting doesn’t go that great. Try a fun bar or restaurant and make sure that the people that are there will all have other people to talk to in case they are not clicking the way that you want them to.
Boundaries
You should always set boundaries. You may not want your swinger friends to tell your non swinger friends personal and private things about you in the bedroom. You may also not want your non swinger friends asking very personal questions to your swinger friends. This is the only way to keep it respectable and comfortable.